Life don’t stop just because your feelings are hurt. Life doesn’t stop just because you’re tired. Or scared, happy or sad, rich or broke. Lost it all or have everything. No matter what life keeps going. Life doesn’t stop or wait for nobody. So in the event, in the time that you are hurt. Feel your emotions. Don’t suppress them. Don’t numb them. Don’t hide them. Break when you need to. It doesn’t make you any less strong. As strong people, we forget that we are still human. That being vulnerable makes us weak or soft. When really it makes us the strongest. It makes us into who we are amongst everything else we experience, learn, go through and endure and overcome in this life. So, break down, be sad, feel through it. Just don’t stay there too long. Because misery loves company, and we have so much more to live for and to look forward to and to be grateful for. Don’t let it keep you broken. After, you get back up and keep it movin. Hold your head and chin back up, open your eyes and mind, feel and strengthen your heart. Get back to doing what you need to do. Get back to doing what you want to do. get back to doing what you love and enjoy to do. Then you repeat this exact cycle through life over and over and over again. Until the very end of it.  

-Seréa K. Tyler 

July 31, 2023

There’s no handbook to parenting. Just like there’s no handbook to life. You are born, you grow up, you learn from your family and the people closest to you, in your home environment where ever that is and with whoever that is, whatever that looks like. Then you go to school, now you meet new people, new ways of life, new peers outside of your own. You go to work and do the same thing. Going throughout all this time, you’re doing your best, the best you know how. You’re learning from and being a product of your environment. Through the good, the bad, and the ugly. Right, wrong, or in different. Through all the mistakes, heartaches, failures, successes, happiness, sadness. You’re learning, growing, and evolving all at once and at all times. Our parents went through exactly this through their lives before us. Then at the beginning of the creation of us and during us, until the end of us. They’ve been doing the best they can with what they know how too… All along. 

-Seréa K. Tyler 

September 13, 2023 

In this life, in any relationship aspect, family, friends, significant others. There are people you meet that you’re meant to be with, people that you are supposed to be just friends with and people you meet to feel, see, and learn something and to let them go. Then through all this we find who we are supposed to be within ourselves, and we spend a lifetime deciphering and be enlightened. 

-Seréa K. Tyler 

October 1, 2023

It’s one thing to be a human in this life. An emotional creature in this life. No matter male or female. It’s another thing to be a writer in this life. To already be the young woman and empath that I am. To already be the person that I am. being a young writer truly does heighten my whole being. As a human writer. We truly are sponges that absorb way past the maximum capacity of the feelings and perspectives of life. As an empath and a woman I already feel my emotions so deeply. it’s nothing compared to feeling my emotions at the same time as feeling everyone else’s and everything around me as well. To then have no other outlet but to bleed on paper as a writer is just the most liberating, strengthening, and sometimes most heartbreaking pieces to the human armor. 

-Seréa K. Tyler 

November 29, 2023  

In this life, everyday I wake up I’m going to choose to be grateful. No matter how bad of a situation I’m in. Even when it’s hard, I’m going to find the will to be grateful. We don’t know how truly blessed we are. And how much we take for granted every second of everyday. we woke up, the people that we love woke up. We’re breathing. We still have our 5 senses. I can still see, I’m not blind. I can still speak, I’m not mute. I can still hear, I’m not deaf. I can still stand, and walk, and move every limb in my body. I’m not disabled or crippled. My mind and brain is are still functioning. My heart is still beating and pumping blood through my veins. I still have a roof over my head, clothes on my back, food in my belly, warmth when it’s freezing out. There’s somebody out there that doesn’t have any of those things. Someone always has it worse. Now this isn’t to invalidate our own struggles or how hard life can be for all of us. Of course it wasn’t designed to be easy. But in the spot that I’m in right now, I’m not rich but I’m not poor. The things that I’ve seen, the things that I’ve felt, can’t be compared to someone who has absolutely nothing. Someone who has absolutely no one. And if you are one of those people, just know that I see you. I feel you, and I pray for you. I know it’s hard to not understand why you’re in the situation you’re in or why it had to be you. And I know you probably don’t believe in or are angry with whatever higher power or being that is above us. And I know you probably think there’s nothing for you to live for. That there’s no point to go on. But I promise you that’s not true. I promise you that you are worthy. You have a purpose for your path and journey. I promise you that my God and or the universe didn’t do this to punish you.It was to prepare you. No matter how good or horrible it gets. And I know it’s easier for me to say. but I’ve had struggle too. I’ve had pain and heartache too. I’ve been lost too. You are not alone. And although our stories may not be the same. Or no where near close. Just know that at least we can relate, that we bleed the same. that we are all human. That we all have the depths of our emotions in this life. Even though I don’t know you. Even though maybe my words mean nothing to you or even if maybe they do. Just know you are not alone and I’m rooting and praying for you. And you will overcome this. The only way out is through. Wholeness is coming for you. Without struggle there would be no compassion. I pray these scriptures over you now: “The pain that you feel now cannot compare to the joy that is coming.“ Romans 8:18. “Weeping may endure for a night, but joy comes in the morning.” Psalms 30:5. 

-Seréa K. Tyler

November 29, 2023